I have to shift from RESISTANCE to ACCEPTANCE
In resistance thoughts are being created of anger …..fear ……conflict …..
In controlling thoughts created are: people should act and behave the way I want as I am right.
The intention is very selfish , its for my happiness.
In influencing I create stability of my mind by not creating disturbance.
My first responsibility is towards myself.
I have no right to control others if I cannot control my mind which is creating thoughts of anger and irritation.
Give your opinion and move out. Give advice with purest intention.
People love to receive advice if it is meant only for their good, then they are ready to change.