Whatever we think, however we feel, someone outside was responsible. This has been our way of living.
This was the victim mode of leading my life, waiting for others to change.
We always blamed people and situations for everything.
I will be happy , if you do things the way I like.
We were conditioned to believe that our activity creates happiness in people.
Our biggest Addiction to the 3 A’s
Approval……Appreciation …… Acceptance…….
We kept on doing things which made others happy and praise us.
Success brings Happiness……………Failure brings Pain………
We all have a Belief System.
Success depends on my achievements, I am responsible for how others feel, Others are responsible for how I feel.
People create a lot of emotions,
Hurt…….Guilt…….Hatred…..Fear……Failure ……Jealousy……
They always blamed others for whatever emotions they were feeling.
In this way they did not have to take up the responsibility to change as it was expected for the other person to change.
Responsibility is Ability to respond in the right way.
Taking Responsibilityis a sign of master of self.
People can behave in a different way, situations can be different.
But how I behave and respond is my CHOICE ………
At every step there will be a choice.
NOTHING,NO ONE is in our control …….
Except for our MIND……..
If others are irresponsible am I being responsible towards myself by being angry and irritated.
My first Responsibility towards my own self.
They are only STIMULUS And I respond to that stimulus.
People can do whatever they think is right, my state of my is in my control.
Things might not go the way I want ……
But today ….I consciously choose to remain stable …..
